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Finding Your Life Purpose and Clarifying Your Life Vision – Episode 205 of The Action Catalyst Podcast

Finding Your Life Purpose and Clarifying Your Life Vision

In this week’s episode of the Action Catalyst Podcast, Rory shares 8 types of visions for you to take action on for finding your life purpose and clarifying your own vision.

Show Highlights:

Our ability to be disciplined is directly proportionate of our vision.

Most people have a complete misconception about why they can’t be disciplined.

Discipline becomes dormant in the absence of a dream.

Increasing someone’s discipline is more a conversation about clarifying their vision than it is about increasing their motivation.

People are motivated by the ability to earn “things.”

Very often vision results from an impending event.

Many times, the vision of visiting a place can inspire us.

Status is one of the most powerful drivers of self-discipline.

Recognition is a quiet driver of accomplishment.

Almost every great vision includes a person in some way.

There is something powerful about earning the respect of someone you respect.

Success is having the people who know you best, respect you the most.

 

The Action Catalyst is a weekly podcast hosted by Rory Vaden of Southwestern Consulting every Wednesday. The show is regularly in the Top 25 of Business News Podcasts, has listeners from all around the world and shares “insights and inspiration to help you take action.” Each week Rory shares ideas on how to increase your self-discipline and make better use of your time to help you achieve your goals in life. He also interviews special expert guests and thought leaders. Subscribe on iTunes and please leave a rating and review!

6 Characteristics of a Great Life Purpose Statement

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People often struggle with articulating their life’s purpose.

A single unifying statement that helps clarify for them what they want their life to have counted for at the end of their days.

In a recent podcast interview with one of my business partners at Southwestern Consulting, Steve Reiner, he and our coaching client were talking through the process they used to help our client identify his purpose.

It’s become one of Steve’s specialties and he laid out 6 characteristics of what make a great life purpose statement that I thought were fantastic:

1. Useful – It should talk about your relationship with other people. Specifically it should address how you will serve and help others beyond just yourself.

2. Universal – It should apply to every area of your life and it should set a mode of operating for you that carries over into both your personal and professional life.

3. Aspirational – It should speak to the person you want to become and the impact you want to have. Almost as if it were a projection of your future self.

4. Formidable – It should be a challenge to achieve and be something that will require you to work and operate at your very best levels.

5. Controllable – It should be something in your power and that relies on you. For example you can’t have a life purpose to make someone happy because that is outside your control. You could say to dedicate your life to providing certain things for someone.

6. Inspirational – It should be something that when you read it, it breathes life into you and causes you to feel compelled to take immediate action.

If you’re interested in learning more about our coaching process and how we might work with you one on one to create your life purpose statement click here.

Finding Your Life Purpose with Steve Reiner and Tom Merritt – Episode 187 of The Action Catalyst Podcast

Tom Merritt is a branch manager at Summit Funding, Inc. As a privately owned residential mortgage company operating across the country, their customers enjoy the benefits of working with a mortgage banker that is powerful enough to be a direct endorsed seller/servicer with GNMA & FNMA. This means they process, underwrite, fund, and service your loans – all in house. This enables Summit to speed up the lending process in a more make sense process so our customers close on-time!

Steve Reiner is an expert at helping people remove the emotional hurdles that prevent them from excelling in business and in life. Having personally delivered over 2,500 1:1 sales and leadership consulting calls, he understands how to get the most out of his clients, helping them to break personal belief barriers and achieve their maximum potential. Steve begins this life-changing journey with his clients by helping them to identify their purpose, crystallize their vision and reinforce their desired behavior change with the right self-talk. As an author of the upcoming book Fearless Selling, Steve will equip you to pursue your goals with greater joy, resolve, and effectiveness.

Show Highlights:

  • When you understand the why, you figure out the how. – Steve Reiner
  • Purpose is your mission for how you invest your life. – Steve Reiner
  • Purpose is bigger than the obstacle. – Steve Reiner
  • Purpose is the person you want to be and the impact you want to have. – Steve Reiner
  • The more you focus on results, the fewer results you get. – Steve Reiner
  • When you focus on purpose, results are the byproduct.
  • The biggest reason we have anxiety is due to trying to control things we can’t. – Steve Reiner
  • Your purpose must be grounded in service. – Steve Reiner
  • In the clarity of your purpose is the absence of your fear. @rory_vaden
  • 5 characteristics of a great purpose. @rory_vaden
  • A great purpose is useful. @rory_vaden
  • A great purpose is universal. @rory_vaden
  • A great purpose is Aspirational. @rory_vaden
  • A great purpose is formidable. @rory_vaden
  • A great purpose is controllable. @rory_vaden

Click here to request a free call with one of Southwestern Consulting’s Certified Coaches.

The Action Catalyst is a weekly podcast hosted by Rory Vaden of Southwestern Consulting every Wednesday. The show is regularly in the Top 25 of Business News Podcasts, has listeners from all around the world and shares “insights and inspiration to help you take action.” Each week Rory shares ideas on how to increase your self-discipline and make better use of your time to help you achieve your goals in life. He also interviews special expert guests and thought leaders. Subscribe on iTunes and please leave a rating and review!

Where Happiness Comes From

Happiness

Pursuing happiness is not what brings happiness.

Pursuing service is what brings happiness.

When we pursue happiness we convince ourselves that if we had something else, did something else, or had something more then it would make us feel better.

But if stuff or experiences was what made people happy, then we all should be happy already because most of us already have plenty of stuff.

Serving though is what always fills us up.

Serving brings us joy.

Serving supplies meaning for our lives.

There is something magical about the exchange that takes place when we help other people.

Our connectedness to another human makes us happy.

Our usefulness to someone outside of us makes us happy.

Our contribution to something greater than ourselves makes us happy.

There is nothing like the feeling you get when you serve someone. When you pour into them and fill them up.

The irony is that in dedicating your time, your energy, and your resources to serving others, you gain in return that ever fleeting feeling that we are all endlessly in search of: happiness.