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The Gift Great Leaders Give

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People don’t need help being realistic.

We’re all already negative enough.

Our typical default is towards why things won’t work and why they’re not possible.

Most of us do just fine on our own coming up with reasons, excuses, and justifications for why our dreams won’t come true.

And we don’t usually need much assistance thinking about the worst case scenario or knowing what the ultimate failure might look like.

No, most of us do that just fine all by ourselves.

What we need help with is believing.

What we need assistance with is dreaming.

What we need affirmation with is what could be possible.

Which is why a part of leadership has to be helping people believe in a bigger future.

We have to help people see what could be possible for their own lives.

We have to show people a plan for how something magnificent could actually come true.

And we have to do the work to take people with us on the path as we embark towards the new.

Because there is no shortage of naysayers in the world who will tell them it can’t be done.

There is no lack of critics who will point out every reason it won’t work.

And there is no absence of realism that will remind us that we’ve never accomplished anything like this before.

But naysayers never advance the world.

Critics don’t create change.

And realism always betrays a person of their chance to reach their full potential.

Which is why we need to lead.

We need to help people believe.

We need to convince them that it’s possible.

And we need to put in the work to show them how.

If you can do that…

If you can show someone a plan for how the impossible can be achieved…

If you can convince someone that their dream can come true…

If you can demonstrate the kind of work it takes to break belief barriers and explode limiting beliefs…

Then you have changed everything for them.

You have led them.

And you have redefined realistic for them.

And that is a great is a great service.

A tremendous gift.

And perhaps a once in a lifetime blessing.

Because people don’t need help being realistic; they need help believing in the bold.

7 Communication Tips That Make Great Leaders

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A great leader is a great communicator. 

Yet communication, especially in the sense of public oratory, is in many ways a lost art form among today’s leaders. 

It’s rare that we have a leader that delivers the kind of speech that touches our spirit and inspires us to be better. 

Too often, leaders ride the credence of their position rather than the articulation of their passion when communicating to their teams. 

Here’s 7 practical things leaders can do in their public presentations that will make them more effective with their followers:

1. Tell stories – Your slides are boring. Your numbers are numbing. So instead, tell stories about specific team members or specific customers where things are being done right. That will keep us engaged and listening. 

2. Be Vulnerable – We barely know you. We barely see you. And then you stand on stage in your stodgy suits and tell us facts. What we’d rather hear about is some of your own blunders, some of your own fears, and some of your transparent mistakes. Humanize yourself by connecting with us through “real” feelings you have. 

3. Build Leaders – The fastest way to make us love you is when you celebrate and lift up the other people in our organization that we all respect and love. It helps us trust you when you recognize the people who look after us and when you show that you know who the people are that do the work around here. If you’re really savvy, you’ll build up your leaders in front of us which will make them feel like a million bucks and bond us all together as a team and reinforce our conviction in leadership as a whole. 

4. Show Appreciation – We know you get pressure by the board, our investors or whoever it is that you answer to about hitting our numbers and we expect that some of that pressure will roll down to us. But what would really make us feel awesome – and want to work harder for you – is if you simply said “thank you.” If you can just find some way to let us know that you notice how hard we are all working and that you appreciate the sacrifices we do make, that will go a long way. 

5. Reinforce Principles – Yes we know that if we were good employees we would all have our core values and principles memorized word for word, but hey we forget and let’s be honest we’d rather spend our free brain capacity playing fantasy football and hanging out with our families. So if there is a principle you want to empower us to operate the company by, please talk about it and give examples of how we could execute it. Or better yet, in your explanation of certain decisions or changes that are being made, connect the justification for why back to our core principles. That helps us understand that you really do take them seriously and that we all should too. 

6. Promote Vision – Most of all we need you to remind us why we are all here. Talk to us about what you believe. Tell us how what we do is important and how our individual roles all add up to something greater and more important. And tell us where we are going as a team. We want to be excited about what is ahead and we want to be in on the big picture. 

7. Compel Greatness – Finally, charge us up with a challenge. Send us off on a high. Invite us to accomplish something great. We want to be a part of something big. Show us how we can be. Let us know what you see, what you believe in and what is coming in the future. 

We’re here because we still see the value in what we all do. Be the leader we want to believe in. The better you are at communicating, the easier it is for us to get behind all that you’re talking about. 

Believe in us and we will believe in you. 

All You Need to Know About Leadership

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The idea of leadership can be intimidating.

But leadership is simple.

To lead is to care.

Leadership is learning to elevate the needs of others to be equal to or above your own.

Leadership then is not a title.

Leadership is not a position.

Leadership is not a crown.

Leadership instead, is a condition of your heart.

It’s a heart that wants to look after others.

It’s a heart that seeks to protect others.

It’s a heart that desires to provide for others.

Leadership is difficult.

But it’s not the act of leading that is that difficult.

It’s the change of focus that’s difficult.

It’s the increase in selflessness that’s challenging.

It’s the worrying less about yourself and more about others that takes intention.

But like many things that are difficult, it comes with a great reward.

It ends up being the person who makes the sacrifice that gets the gift.

The gift of seeing someone else succeed.

The gift of watching someone else grow.

The gift of experiencing something that is bigger than yourself.

That is leadership.

That is human.

That is wonderful.

And that kind of leadership is always worth it.