3 Ways we lose time and what to do about it*

* This is an excerpt from a live coaching call with one of my clients recently.

What I’ve discovered is that there are 3 primary ways we lose our time. And they are different than most people expect or realize.

A.  Not knowing where you’re going next

  1. Don’t waste a second – ever. Don’t let your goals and dreams fall victim to unplanned events. Anything that isn’t a part of your schedule is a distraction and should be minimized at all costs. Don’t be rude to people; just know that you should “always have a meeting to be at” in the next few minutes. There should always be somewhere you’re going next.
  2. Have a written schedule and stick to it relentlessly. Your results are very often the output of your schedule. Do what is on your schedule all the time.

B.  Fatigue

  1. Physical – You need at least 6.5 hours of Sleep and if at all possible get 7-8. Vince Lombardi said “fatigue makes cowards of us all.” If you’re not energized you won’t be efficient.
  2. Physical – Get your booty to the gym. Don’t let your body feed you the BS that you’re too tired to work out. Your body recharges from working out. Even if it’s 30 minutes for 3 days a week. Just get there! We see consistently that people who can just get their body into the gym can usually get motivated to do something once they’re there. Do it. Once you are physically there then get yourself amped up to crush it! Dominate your workout and hit it hard. Then go home and go to the next thing.
  3. Emotional – Some of the best managers in the country forget this and they don’t realize that one thing that is holding them back is they never get emotionally recharged. If you’re pouring out into others you need to be refilling your emotional fuel  tank. Find what fills you up spiritually and emotionally.
    • Positive reading: John Maxwell – 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, Ken Blanchard – One Minute Manager, T Harv Eker – Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, Dale Carnegie – How To Win Friends and Influence People, John Maxwell – Leadership Gold, Jim Collins – Good to Great
    • Read the Bible each day – at least 1 chapter.
    • Church on Sunday with no excuses. Just go do it.
    • Family – I find that spending actual time physically with family is very recharging. Sometimes on the phone it’s not always. Try to get some place that makes you feel like home and especially reconnecting with parents and letting them know how much they mean to you will naturally recharge you.

C.  Having focus diverted across too many things

  1. Imbalance is the new balance – The way most people think about balance is absurd. We tend to think of spending an equal amount of time on all different types of activities.  Balance is not equal time across equal activities; it’s APPROPRIATE time across critical PRIORITIES. In other words, don’t try to be all things to all activities or try to do everything. Instead figure out what things are most important to you and imbalance your life in those directions.
  2. Keystone Goal – Have 1 overarching goal that ties all your others together. A keystone goal isn’t necessarily the most important; it’s just the one that if you accomplish it, all of the others will happen as a bi-product.
  3. Batching – multi-tasking means juggling lots of priorities; it doesn’t mean doing many tasks at once. Don’t try to be on Facebook while doing paperwork and taking cell phone calls. Doesn’t work. Focus is power. Blitz it hard. Paperwork for paperwork time. Gym for gym time. Family for family time. Pounding the phones during phone time. That simple.

Your results are just a bi-product of your schedule. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. You be consistent and relentless about your schedule. Work the system and allow the system to work for you. Put your self-esteem into your work habits and  let the rest shake out as it may.

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  • http://1to1discovery.com/weblog/ Juli Monroe

    Very good advice. I often have clients use the “I have another meeting in 5 minutes” to get off the phone.

    Something else that I use and advise other people to do is turn off the phone and email reminders for short periods in the day. It’s hard to focus when technology is distracting us. Turning them off allows us to batch them later when we’ve finished the task in front of us now.

  • http://www.search-engine-academy-washington-dc.com Nancy E. Wigal

    Social sites like FaceBook and Twitter also suck up valuable time. I know many freelance professionals who use a dedicated computer that has no online capability to do their real work on.

  • http://www.takethestairsspeaker.com takethestairs

    Yes good call Juli. The chirp alert on the phone is the biggest cause of perpetual anxiety on the planet today. Turn that bad boy off! I did. Great tip Juli!

  • http://www.takethestairsspeaker.com takethestairs

    Yes they are great time suckers. For people who are able to generate revenue from those sites they can use ping.fm, http://www.socialoomph.com, or hootesuite.com to manage everything. But I love the idea about being disconnected from the internet altogether when actually focusing on getting work done!

  • http://www.refinedperspectives.com Sharon Schierling

    I love your work, and writing. Great stuff for anyone who needs to motivate themselves or a team. I have passed it on to my Twitter followers and Facebook.

  • http://www.takethestairsspeaker.com takethestairs

    Sharon, I don’t know how I missed this comment but THANK YOU! What a fabulous comment. Glad to hear you are enjoying it. Please let me know if there are other topics you are hoping to see more on. All the best!

  • http://www.thejimmymoore.com Jimmy Moore

    All great points on time. The balance issue is such a biggie that i think we overlook alot and don’t know till we’re down the road we’re out of balance. I made a list of all the activities of where i’ve been spending my time. I’ve been asking myself “what can Jimmy and ONLY Jimmy do” and i circled those items. Our of 11 total there where 4 circled. Then i separated those from that is urgent vs important and what is both urgent and important. WOW, this excersice created so much clarity to me and where i spend my time and how i could have been leveraging that to my staff and in turn growning the whole organization.
    Great topic Rory.. Talk to you soon,
    J

  • sridhar

    Dear Rory.
    Very powerfull message. I have always been at awe at your presentations which are transformational and have had great impact on me. It was so nice meeting you and your wife in DTAC2011 in Amman Jordon. I forward your messages and mails to my 15 year old daughter.

    Thanking you.

    S.R.Sridhar

  • http://www.sellingthewaypeopleliketobuy.com Dustin Hillis

    Awesome advice Rory! Time is our most precious asset that cannot be replaced. Keep up the great work!